Lust in the city…does it last?

I recently did an article on the effects of forming a new ‘friend’ when travelling. At the time I was finding my travellers adventurous spirit being replaced with a desire to stay.

So what happened!

After spending an amazing few days with this ‘friend’ they convinced me to carry on and then come back. I ended up coming back and spending some more time with them. I was surprised to see a considerable change in my feelings. Although I was still having a great time the fire that made it impossible to think straight had quenched. I was ready to see it for what it was, having fun in the moment. I was now ready to keep having more adventures.

The point…

I did a part two of this article specifically for those travellers in the throws of lust. Before you commit to staying still spend some time away and then come back. Its often hard to see a situation clearly when in it. However if its right go for it, you only have one life enjoy it.

Tell me about your experience now in the comments.

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Lust in the city-a travellers dilemma

So a holiday and especially travelling can be a very freeing experience. When travelling for a long time the emotional guards that were carefully constructed crumble (or at least in my case). So what happens when you add to the mix a lot of young (or my case youngish) travellers??? Lust lust lust.

After 4 months there has been a few lustful exchanges, however a recent one for the first time has dampen my travellers curiosity and made me want to stop in one place.

So the big question is why. This person isn’t a fellow traveller so maybe its their grounding I’m craving? Maybe I am truly into them, but what would be point with a clear expiration date? Maybe I’m just lonely and they represent companionship I desire? Maybe its just the excitement and I should go with it?

Have you had a holiday/travel experience like this, if so please tell me your story and what you did?